Before
Palmer came along, Leaf was our baby. He was certainly a spoiled dog. I was
hoping that after baby came along, the way we treated Leaf wouldn't change, but
it did.
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4 month old Leaf |
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Leaf LOVES water |
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and playing outside |
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6 month old Leaf in his pool |
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4 year old Leaf in his pool |
So, of
course I don't know exactly what Leaf is thinking, but most times, I think I
have a pretty good idea. I can tell that since Palmer came along, he feels
left out at times. I can tell that sometimes he is sad. But now that Palmer is
on a regular routine, it is much easier to spend quality time with Leaf when
she is napping or in bed. Even on nice days, I am able to play with Leaf in the
yard while Palmer sits on a blanket and watches.
I’m sure
the past 6 months have been difficult for Leaf. Not only was it traumatizing
for him to move into our new house which is full of laminate floors (which he
is nearly deathly afraid of) but having Palmer come along couldn’t have been
easy for him either. Leaf’s “job” before Palmer was to be cute and cuddly, get
all the attention, and keep Mitchell and I company. After Palmer arrived, for
awhile Leaf’s “job” changed to “go find something to do outside to amuse
yourself while we are busy inside with the new baby.” I don’t think I really
realized it at first how much bringing home a new baby is a huge change for
everyone, pets included.
Obviously,
Leaf doesn’t need special toys to feel important. He just wants love and lots
of walks. He would walk all day every day if we could. I have tried to get out
at least once a day for a walk, but when it was colder, it was hard with Palmer
being a baby and Mitchell working all day. Now that it’s nice out, it hasn’t
been much of a problem at all, unless it’s raining (which it has been doing a
lot of these days).
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2 of Leaf's favourite things: swimming and walks |
At first,
Leaf wasn’t too sure of the new addition to the family. He didn’t like to be
near Palmer at all. He would growl and try to run away if you held her close to
him. Now, he likes giving her kisses and sniffs (probably because she has left
over bananas on her face). I have also noticed lately, that Palmer has become
much more interested in Leaf. She will watch him run around the yard, look at
him through the window, try to touch him when he comes close. The two of them
are really warming up to each other. I’m sure once Palmer gets moving more, she’ll
be trying to chase him all over the yard (and if we ever get Leaf to not be afraid
of the floors, she may even chase him around the house).
Like I
said, now that there is a much better routine around here, Leaf has been
getting more attention from everyone. I’m sure it will only get better from
here!
Oh my goodness, the laminate flooring thing kills me! What a funny dog :)
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